If children want to dye hair, painted nails, then you should think carefully before declining. Be better if you have him do something harmless. Take the opposition to things such as tobacco, drug and alcohol.

Matured, children begin to think independently, what I want to express my. And parents are worried when children changed dramatically, beginning to assert themselves and speak their opinions, even if the opposition controlled too tightly.

Then you may be wondering myself Now, if you are young enough to need privacy, you must be a father (mother) dictatorial, do you really listen to the talk …

Kidshealth make some suggestions to help you pass your child’s stage of puberty:

- Equipped with knowledge of their

You read books about children in the new age of big, think about the years of his youth, remembers you worried how the face is acne … For a change of mind in children and you are ready to face the debate more when I develop the her. As many know, the more you can pass this stage easily.

- Find appropriate time to talk with children about sex

You just tell them about the business or have wet dreams when this happens is already late. Before that, you can answer these questions about human body such as: differences between sons and daughters, children born from where … But you should not say too much detail, simply answer the question.

You pay attention to the children. You can hear children talking about sexual jokes or enjoy attention to the appearance of others. This is a good time to talk to your children. Can start with your own question: Do you notice changes in your body do not?, Do you feel you have some strange feeling not? or Sometimes I feel that children do not know why not?

Or you can go to child health checks in school. Your doctor may tell you and your child about what may happen in a few years. And from there, you can discuss further with your child.

It is important that, as soon as you talk to them about these issues when entering the puberty stage, children will still be able to open with you about the problems of children. You buy them books about puberty, told the story of his own when at the age of the child.

- Put yourself in the position of the

You put ourselves in the position to be able to feel with what children think and do. Then there behavior accordingly. You can tell children that it is normal if that is not natural or Blush when you stand before the opposite sex, or like the boy (her) neighbors.

- Select a controversial issue

If children want to dye hair, paint fingernails black dress or modern, you should think carefully before opposition. Children at this stage to shock the parents. Therefore, be better if you have him do something with the temporary nature or harmless. Take opposed to things such as tobacco, drug and alcohol.

- Consistently with the expected of the

Children may be seen not happy with the expectations placed on her parents. However, children should know and understand their parents’ hopes get good scores, behavior and appropriate to comply with the house. If parents have realistic expectations, the child will be able to try to achieve.

- Respect the privacy of children

Some parents may find difficulty with this. They feel any child is doing their work. But to help children grow up with independence, then you need a little privacy for children. If you find a thing to worry they can break the privacy of this.

However, children’s rooms and mobile should private. You can not expect your child will be shared with all earth thinking and work. Of course, for safety issues you need to know the go, what to do, with someone but you do not know too much detail.

- Monitoring what children see and read

Children how to have thousands of information, the television, magazines, books and internet. You can limit the amount of time children sit before a computer or television.

- Know the warning signs

Some changes may be normal for children to adulthood but are expressed in a number of children you need care such as weight gain or lose weight too quickly, sleep problems, the result of reduced, say or tell stories about suicides … At this point you should really interested to take the child and to see a doctor.